What is friendship?
Friendship is co-operative and supportive behavior between two or more people. In this sense, the term connotes a
relationship which involves mutual
knowledge,
esteem, and
affection and respect along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis. Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit
loyalty towards each other, often to the point of
altruism. Their
tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping
behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective
behaviors. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the
trust that someone or something will not harm them.
Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating the following on a consistent basis:
the tendency to desire what is
best for the other,
sympathy and
empathy,
honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the
truth, especially in terms of pointing out the perceived faults of one's counterpart,
mutual
understanding.
Source: Wikipedia.
Are you MY TRUE Friend?
If YOU are.
Show It.
Dun give me craps.Ok? Thanks.YOU are giving me the Creeps.i have been enlighten.
so.. i decided 2 wash my hands over tis matters.It is not only frustrating.
It is sad, emotionally taxing.
But it is only dat if i care.
so..Say and talk wadever u wan.
I dun care.
Whoever who 1 2 say Untrue things abt me, Talk on.
PPl will 1day see ur true face. and u will get the double impact of wad u have said.
so there is no need 4 me to say anything, thus silence doesnt mean i dunno anything.
=)
and ppl who wan 2 belief in ppl who say untrue things, belief in them lo.
i cant control over wad u wan 2 hear and belief in, right?
i cant control who u wan 2 belief in, right?
^.~
Alrights,
a little tip.
If u wan ppl to respect u, u respect them 1st.
If u wan ppl to trust u, u trust them 1st.
If u wan ppl to be ur fren, u be their fren.
If u wan ppl to treat u in a nice manner, treat them nicely too.
If u dun show respect, dun expect ppl to respect u. b prepared for disrespect.
How to be a person?
Dat dun need me to teach. Am i right?
U should noe it better than me.
=)
one is my fren.
i trusted u.
i belief dat u shld trust me back, but u didnt, so dun complain when i say i dun trust u.
one is my fren's fren.
i actually tot dat u r my fren.
however,
wad u have said behind my back, and ur behaviour make me feel irks.
entirely dun take my existence into consideration and dun even show me the respect dat i have given u.
U have taken more u shld have taken.
Better not take it for granted, and pat ur backsides and walk off.
How abt a little word of apology.
and clarify wad u have did and take back all tos untrue things u have said?
However.
Tis is ur choice.
and the choice of other ppl on whether they wan 2 belief and trust me ma.
all i noe i have been victimised and is totally innocent.
so pls.
ppl reading tis.
dun ever do wad tis two ppl have done.
dragging me down into a bottomless bog...
i m now going let it b.
so pls dun come and bother me or my frens again.
(esp my fren's fren)
No.
It is not becox of dat u are right.
It is becox.
I feel dat it will b stupid of me to bother abt of this kind of ppl.
I have got my own life to lead.
and my life do not need ppl like u.
I do not welcome u into my frens circle.
Thanks.
ok..
i m coming to the end of tis post..
The last one abt dat backstabbing and untrue lies a person have said and another have belief.
=)
The last 1.
If nth went wrong, which mean as long as dat person dun do anything or try anything funny,
i will wash my hands over tis matter.
i would like to Thanks a few ppl for their support all along tis saga.
well..
To tos ppl.
U noe who u are.. So.. THANKS!!! hehe! =P
I specially wan 2 thanks my bf.
^^
Wahaha.
i noe.
my distrust and tandrums i tend to have when dealing with dat particular person is esp emotionally taxing to u too.
=X
i m so sorry...
dear dear is so sry...
The main thing is dat we have grow closer and noe eachother better, and trust eachother more during tis rainy days...
=)
it is a test for our relationship.
and see.
we have passed!!!
with flying colours!!!
=)
Eeehaa!!!
Yippy!!!
Smiles!!!
I LOVE TOH CHIN SENG.=D
Thanks for reading tis blog.hope u ppl learn more things abt respect.=)
Shiyun Hate Her Mum.
WHY?
Her attitude sucks...
Only noe how 2 SCOLD and SCOLD everyday...
Her Bitchy ways.
Her Revenge of the Bitch ways.
Shiyun Dislike Her Dad.
Why?
Only noe how 2 Pour Cold water over other ppl.
No encouragement. and wadsoever.
(dun say i nver appreate their care and concern, or respect them. Cos in the 1st place, they treat kids as something they owned, with the wills subjected 2 them. i showed them care and concern. they dun appreate it. instead, make me upset, scolded me badly.. and dun even give a damn. so y should i respect them back?)
I Will Stay Strong.
Like an Elastic trunk of an sapling.
I will Grow.
I will Stand Tall.
Will Nver b Plucked out. Staying Stubborn to make My Presence.
Just like a weed.
Be strong.
Overcome This Barriers...
Till the day i really fall.
